I stumbled across a piece of disturbing news about men that
I had to blog about. I am not sure if I am trying to rationalize a man’s
thought process or if I just want to figure out where the blame falls.
Men are actively choosing to watch porn and masturbate
rather than sleep with their women. Yes, you read that correctly. Men would
rather get carpel tunnel than enjoy the two (on more) person activity with one
another. Not all men, but it is becoming an epidemic. Google it.
I recently read a woman’s story online when she asked for
advice via the internet. This woman says in her story, that she met a really
nice man and their personalities really hit it off. Their first date, they
watched movies at home and got shit faced drunk. The guy kept saying he was too
drunk to have actual intercourse, but would love other sexual favors. He then said
“when I am less drunk, the sky is the limit”. The next morning, he was caught
jacking off. When confronted, he simply said “You’re cute, but you don’t float
my boat.” This man slept in this woman’s bed, received sexual favors and wasn’t
even attracted to the woman!! I feel so horrible for her. A lot of the online
advice was RUN. And there’s more fish in the sea… But how does that help her
self confidence?
I began looking online some more and found that this is happening
to women of all ages, sizes and commitment levels. Wives walking in on husbands
who turned down sex earlier that night. Girl friends listening to their men get
off in the shower alone, even though she was waiting naked in bed for him. I
don’t understand what kind of world we live in. IF this happened to me, I would
kick that man out of my house and tell him not to let the concussion to his
head let him crash and die on the high way. I feel like I live in the real
world where real people fornicate in real effing life. Not some RPG game where
all the girls are animated and they always give you what you want via your
hand.
Stories like this make me want to give up on love and just
settle for my happy SOLO life. I would never act like I am attracted to someone
I am not just to be kind. In the long run, your actions hurt more than you
think they helped. Honestly, I wish the man in the woman’s story had just been
upfront on their first date. Instead of drinking, he could have said, hey, I
think you’re cool, but I’m not into your look. You can’t hate someone for being
honest. Lying is ten times worse.
The morale of this story, make sure you ask some really
obvious questions before you make an ass out of your self with “assumptions”.
And never give someone the power to lower you self confidence. You are who you
want to be and it’s a damn good version, no matter what anyone says.
Having said this, I think I am ending the search for love
until after the holidays. Who knows, maybe turning 26 will make me feel less
jaded after reading stories like this online. How dare you men of America. HOW
EFFING DARE YOU.
/End rant.
